It has been recalled through a series of memoirs that Imam Khomeini used to advise families of groom and bride to avoid setting any type conditions which could affect the couple’s life from economically.
The economic and expenditures of the marriage should be decided by an agreement of the both sides and should be refrained from making hard and tough financial demands from each other.
Imam used to attach divine values in this regard and expected the families to let the couples build their lives on divine-oriented values and ethical norms.
(A memoirs by Fatima Tabatabaei, the daughter in law of Imam)